This has always been a touchy subject amongst friends and family. The way I handle it isn’t the correct way but my way. I’ll place a small wager on something I see I need. If a friend let’s me know that they want it I’ll back off an item and he/she needs to do the same for me once before I’m asked to back off again. I’m not a person who doesn’t do last second wagers. I have a set figure in mind on every card I need and willing to let any friend know what that is. If they are willing to go higher, then I won’t continue to place bids. I don’t feel that a card will come up again if I let it go. To me it will be a hole in my collection that I might not fill. The lack of funds stops me too often to let a card/need go by that I can afford so friends can get it for themselves on an ongoing bases. The good thing in my Gonzalez collection is I only collect one of each and now have published most of my collection on this site so you all will know if I’ll be wagering on a card or not!
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